8 months ago I did 2 post with title "Ideal BF" and "Ideal BF 2" , at that time I was very new in this gay circle and all I knew were those mixed crush feelings... Most of my time spent were with younger boys, since then after I did that 2 post, I decide to come out and explore more on the older guys' side...
It's been 6 months now, not to say I've completely cut down my desire on young boys.. But I get to know more on both sides, what they think and how they act..
Whenever I meet PLUs who are older than me, I always ask them this question... "Do you prefer guys older or younger than you??" Well, most of them say younger... Then I'll ask another one "Wow, that's great, so what do you think of me?? If there's a chance will you date me??"
The answer I get is, "Of course"....
From the scenario above, I always wonder in my mind. Let's say the guy in the conversation above is 27 years old and I'm 21... OK he likes younger guys, and if I revert 6 years back, he will be 21 and I'll be 15... At that time I'm underage and very problematic, so what is his preference during the age of 21?? Twink or Older guys?? (Get what I mean??)
These cases only apply to those who discovered themselves during early age..
Finding a twink is dangerous, because that's where they experience puppy love and you can never expect much from them... If I really decide to go for Twink, it has to be 6 years from now, I'm 27 and he's 21... Just like the scenario I mentioned above....
I don't know what's the answer for my older friend, cause I didn't asked him detail on this matter... But for now , finding an older guy will be the current "option" I think....
Guess it comes down to the bottomline and I should ask myself this question... "Am I ready Yet??"
11 dollars donated:
woah! J... I mean Jerry! hehehe... for now I also prefer if its an older guy. I no experience ma. Need some lessons. LOLsss...
no need to think so much de lah....sampat...
like what i told u the other day .. just do whatever that u think is best for u..nn him.. as long as it won't hurt any party..:))
cheers :))
Ideally, I'd like to date someone of the same age. 2nd option, older guys.. And younger guys would be my last choice. But if love does chance upon me, I think age would be insignificant. It won't matter anymore.
And about age differences. Let's say 2 guys are 10 years apart. So it would be wrong for a 20 year old to date a 10 yo. But what if they were 50 and 40 respectively? The age difference becomes more socially acceptable as age increases. Just use the "half your age plus seven" rule as a guideline. That's what I do. Divide your age, then add 7 to it. That's the youngest age you should date. That's what's credited as 'socially acceptable'. :)
wuu someone's getting older~ Hmm, me likey xD
Everyone has a preference, but not necessary that we go the same way. It all depends on the total package of the "potential one". Sometimes, a simple (perhaps even silly too)gesture is all it takes for us to fall for them.
Wish you well! ^_^
+Ant+
darling
my hubby is yongerthan me, he is 29 and i am 32, and we are doing great!
in my previous episode of relationship, i have this partner of the same age. Horrid matter! you knew everyone wants to be and feel diva's, i never blame him, i am "Queen Control" after all, and financial+family+friends issues.
So, my advice for u darling!find:
a decent working adult +- 5 years of ur age!,
he got everything to splush u for love since u are madonna-far-related-cousin,
the near factor! how near is a vital issues 4 u,
who love u for u!
Whatever works!
Bernard - Haha, yea lo.. I guess that's just the way it is.. But you know its fun if you get a younger one, both inexperience one try together.. Sure very fun...
Paul - Wakarimashita!!!
Danny - Boo Yah!!! I need to start going to clubs ASAP!!! LOL
Evann - Wow playing with numbers.. Hmm why isit 7 though... Why not 6 or 8 hehe...
LM - Don say older la.. I feel a little hurt haha... Just say more mature will do :)
Gratitude - So hard to get those mutual feelings...
Steve - I'll take your advice into consideration.. Thanks Steve .. +-5 age :D
William - Whatever Works, Blends together and become one..!!!
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