Thursday, October 22, 2009

Wack = Love , Anger = Care ??

Back then when I was primary school, we still have public caning in class, the bigger the cane is the more famous the teacher gets... I hate it especially when those teacher used to say "We teachers cane you because we love you" (Because its a double edged thingy), OH I SEE!!!!

Nvm, that age is over now, and I never agreed to it NEVER... Whacking/Caning is not the solution!!





But somehow if you say showing Anger or expressing your nasty little emotions towards others, that means you actually care for them... I have no choice but to agree on this because when a person doesn't care, they won't even bother to waste their saliva on you...


Sometimes in life people might have told you alot alot of stuffs, but all those won't get into your ears, until you experience it at some point in life, then it will ring-a-bell in your head... I've watched this series last month "KO Sanguo", and in one of the episodes (Episode 20++) the girl said, "At some point of a relationship, when a person doesn't know how to express his own emotion to tell you how he/she feels, showing anger is one of the best way to show it, that shows how much he/she care about you"


But it only apply to some situations I guess, not all... Like if suddenly a stranger suddenly come to you and scold you, that's not care.. That's an insult.... You have to decide it yourself...







It is not easy for me to listen to other's anger without triggering mine as well cause I'm a short tempered guy... I choose to respect, but I can choose not to respect too...

But from time to time, I'm learning on how to control them...Dare not say I'm improving, but at least I'm learning...

Question for today is, do you show to a person on how much you cared by expressing your Anger towards him/her??

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Gratitude said...

I did a few times, and regretted it terribly coz that's not my nature, fm a cucumber to a firelava-mouth. Have heard many parents say that it hurt them more to use the cane than the recipient who got whacked hard.

Hopefully, my few actions did some good.
+Ant+

Medie007 said...

now that you know, have you found out who cared about u most?

ichimaru akira said...

No use of saying the same thing over and over again till the mouth starts to bleed to a person who never listens.

Sumtimes,leaving that person alone is the best policy

Suf n Steve said...

darling

you love spanking right? auwwwwww

sound very much kinky right! all the best in all exam...muahahah

William said...

Scold first. Care later.

Bravebear said...

I definitely did. But I think thats why J kenot tahan me... I explode all the time. Too 'hot' for him I guess... hahaha!

Really doing my best in anger management. Wish I will never feel angry ever again... not a nice feeling.

Jerry said...

Gratitude - You are human too, everyone has emotions... Get angry once in a while is not that bad cause you can check you patience limit... The next time when you are about to get angry again, you will know how to control it...

Medie - Yea, I do...

Ivan - That's why, not every situation works, if you everytime get mad over something easily, slowly the person will become immune to you, it won't work anymore..

Steve - Haha, no la, I don like spanking, I like tickling LOL!!! Thanks Steve :D

William - Yup, Agree...

BraveBear - You very hot tempered one meh? U don't like look that type wo... But you and J are still good friends now, good luck to you la... ^^

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